Sunday, March 30, 2025

Don't Shoot the Messenger

I heard a story recently that disturbed me. A young family we know was Swatted. I wasn't familiar with Swatting, but Ward says it's been around for a long time. It involves making a false 911 call about a dangerous disturbance at someone's house. That activates a heavily armed police response, often a SWAT team. It has been deadly at times, with the homeowners shooting what they think are intruders invading their homes in the middle of the night. The SWAT team fires back, shooting to kill. The Swatting call is meant to harass and intimidate.

Both parents were at work, and the babysitter was home with the toddler when the police arrived. They were responding to a call about loud arguing at the house that sounded dangerous. When the police arrived, the house was quiet, so luckily, they didn't break down the door. They asked to come in. However, the babysitter, a newly arrived au pair from South America, wouldn't open the door until she called the mother and asked what to do. (By the way, everyone is happy how the babysitter protected the child and just didn't let the police in until she was sure it was safe.) The mother said to let them. They did a complete search of the house, found nothing, and left.

I guess you could say that all's well that ends well, except for the emotional trauma caused by the whole incident. I can only imagine how terrified the au pair was and how unsettling it was for the family to think about someone wanting to Swat them.

An investigation is underway, but no one knows who made the call or why. The father is in law enforcement, so maybe someone didn't like what he stands for. Or maybe someone thought the au pair was an illegal alien. 

This is another example of the shoot-the-messenger mentality. Too often these days, people's anger is directed at the messenger, not the real cause of their anger. And they don't think about all of the innocent people they hurt along the way with their "protests". There are many examples I could give of this, but I think I'll end now before this post gets too political. But it all makes me upset.


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  1. That is so very scary, and thank goodness this particular incident ended well. I've heard of so many that don't.

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    1. It is very scary. This young family couldn't be nicer, so it's hard to imagine that they would have any real enemies.

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  2. This is horrifying. I'm impressed with the babysitter's presence of mind. I'm not sure I would have thought as clearly in that circumstance. Like you, I'm concerned by the disturbed mindset that set these events into motion.

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    1. I have met the au pair and she is a lovely young woman. Now I have another reason to be impressed with her.

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  3. I'm glad it ended well without anyone getting hurt. I remember how concerned I felt when the paramedics showed up at my house in January, claiming someone had called from my address.

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    1. You hear about things like this on the news, but when you know the people involved or it happens to you, you see it in a whole new light.

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  4. That is awful! It sounds like the au pair handled it perfectly, though.

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    1. The au pair did handle it just as she should have and made everyone, especially the parents, feel better.

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