Friday, May 3, 2024

Speed Blogging

The Lily of the Valley is in bloom now.

 My timer is set to 13 minutes, so I'll see where my typing fingers take me. I need to do this quickly because we are leaving soon to visit my father-in-law. We have to go through some major traffic to get there, so we try to time our trips carefully.

6 yo Ward
Today is Ward's birthday. We're going to do a family celebration next week when everyone can come. I was lucky to find Ward. He is a good, hardworking, kind, responsible person. I am even more fortunate that we have become closer and closer over the years. We were young when we got married, 24, but it seemed old at the time. As we matured, we could have easily grown apart, but we were able to work through our differences and become closer and happier throughout the years. The biggest thing we had to do was learn how to disagree/fight. We have very different styles of handling disagreements, and it took us a while to learn a compromise. And yes, even after decades of marriage, we are still learning about each other. Anyway, Happy Birthday, Ward!

I have been setting weekly goals for myself for a couple of months now. I mentioned before that they are things in the background and don't always get the attention they need. I try to include some things in the house (usually cleaning), some things outside, 2 blog posts, a letter or card to someone, and a social contact with someone I haven't seen in a while. So far, I am meeting all of my goals, but it's a struggle to get them all in at times. I'm on track for this week after I get the downstairs toilet cleaned. That bathroom is seldom used, and scum from the water builds up in it. 

I have to work Saturday and Sunday, so today is my day to finish the list, which I think I can do after we return from our trip.


We've had a couple of days in the high 80s, which was unseasonably warm. Our last frost day is coming soon, so I think I can start putting out some warm-weather plants. Tomatoes are the first things that come to mind. Yesterday, I put up some sticks and string for the pea plants to vine onto. They look pretty wonky, but I think they should work. However, I know Ward will have the urge to make something more substantial when he sees them. :) I have been transplanting more plants from a bed that I hope to redo. Nothing does very well there, so I want to do some soil amendments and start over, except for a couple of irises I planted there a few years ago and have finally bloomed. 

Ward is calling, telling me it's time to go. 

So, until next time...


12 comments:

  1. Happy Birthday to Ward! Hope it's a good one for him! It's so good that y'all have grown closer through the years. It would be so easy to throw in the towel sometimes, but good marriages take lots of work, and you two have definitely put in the work. Sounds like you are staying very productive and meeting your goals! Hope you have a great weekend!

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    1. All relationships take work to maintain and a marriage is not an exception. We are blessed that we have been able to make it work.
      If truth be told, I'm not as enthusiastic about my weekly lists as I was in the beginning, but I am powering through them. When I was a kid, we called them work lists which is really what they are.

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  2. People born in May are awesome (who, me, prejudiced???). Happy birthday to Ward. Even though I don't know you both IRL, it sounds like you have character traits that are a good balance for each other, and you've figured out ways to work through the quirks. A good, long-lasting marriage is an amazing achievement.

    Lily of the Valley always reminds me of my mom. She had some planted in front of our house, and she also favored a perfume with that scent. And iris reminds me of my father--he loved them and had a mini-garden of them when I was young. Your pictures are making me nostalgic today. Thanks for including them.

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    1. Ward and I definitely have different strengths and weaknesses, but agree on all of the important stuff.
      Lily-of-the-Valleys have a very nice scent. I can see why your mother like a perfume like that. The iris that are in bloom now are from my aunt who died a couple of years ago. My cousin gave me some of her irises which I was glad to get. The blooms make me feel a bit nostalgic, too.

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  3. Happy birthday to Ward! Wish him all the best from me, please.
    You've had warmer days than we've had! I'm looking forward to the 80+ days to come.
    Sounds like you are doing great with your To Do/Work lists. Often, it is a matter of just doing the tasks, but, some of us tend to procrastinate!
    The flowers are beautiful! I have not been able to grow lily-of-the-valley over here. But, they are lovely.

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    1. I have the lily of the valley tucked away in a corner of the yard, and I consider them one of my hidden treasures. I just hope that the neighbors like them, too, because they have spread into their yard. :)
      I will give Ward your wishes. Thanks.

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  4. We are still raining here, and will be raining for another week I guess. Your warm days sound so inviting.

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    1. The temperatures have dropped 30 degrees and it's raining today. I won't mind so much because I will be inside all day at work. I hope you have a sunny day, soon.

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  5. Happy Birthday wishes to Ward.
    It is definitely hot enough here to plant anything now.

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    1. Your southern heat is always ahead of ours. Thanks for the birthday wishes.

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  6. We too met and married when I was 24. Although we have had our share of disagreements, we rarely argue, I do not know why, things just seemed to click with us. Happy Birthday to Ward!

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    1. Congrats on also maneuvering things for a long marriage. Sounds like you found just the right person.

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