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Observations from Everyday Life
Wednesday, August 19, 2026
Wordless Wednesday, A walk around the yard
Sunday, August 16, 2026
Thankful Sunday
I am thankful for friendships.
Recently, I was able to spend time with a friend from Seattle who was in the area visiting her son and his family. We had crepes for brunch and then walked around the charming town where her son lives. Because we live on different coasts, this was a rare and special treat.
Since our meeting, I've been singing a song I learned in scouts.
Make new friends
But keep the old
One is silver and the other's gold.
Now, if I can just get Ward to sing it with me in a round, the experience will be complete. But until then, I am thankful for friendships.
Until next time...
Wednesday, August 12, 2026
WV Trip 2026, Spencer
Recently, Ward and I took a trip to West Virginia to visit family and friends. I am sharing parts of that trip here.
When I last left you, we had just arrived in Spencer, my hometown. Spencer is a town of around 2,000 people and typifies WV, which is made up of mostly small towns and rural areas. In fact, the two largest cities, Charleston (the state capital) and Huntington, are small by many standards, with populations under 50,000.
Aerial view of Spencer when I lived there. There have been some major changes in businesses, but basically, the town is the same.
The goal of this outing was to visit a couple of friends. But first, we did a little touring around town. Spencer had two new things that I had read about and wanted to see.
First was a new little league field, and next was a giant flag erected for the 250th anniversary of the US. Both of these were projects of the Freshwater Foundation. Freshwater Foundation was founded by a local man who started with manual labor in oil and gas fields in the area and gradually formed the large company he has today. Besides providing scholarships for trade schools, he is building things in the community that they wouldn't have been able to provide otherwise.
Next up was the largest flag in WV in honor of the US's 250th anniversary. It was erected on Flag Day, June 14, 2026, and hopes to bring some tourism to the area. Of course, we saw it from far away, but decided to hike to the hill it was located on.
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| And that was when Ward and I lost track of each other; I headed for the hill with the Civil War cemetery because from afar I saw a flag there. |
However, we did accomplish the main goal of the trip and spent time visiting with old friends.
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| We visited with Donna and her husband. Her yard was filled with beautiful flowers, and I liked her sign, "Donna's Garden". |
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| Next was Lois and her husband. Lois and I were cheerleaders together in high school and write old-fashioned snail mail letters to each other. |
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| We took a different route home and went through Ripley, Granny Sue's territory. |
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| We made it back to Williamstown in time to have a s'mores party with more of my cousins. A fun end to a busy day. |
Next time, I'll finish with a few odds and ends.
Monday, August 10, 2026
WV Visit 2026, Ohio River and Back Roads
Recently, Ward and I took a trip to West Virginia to visit family and friends. I am sharing parts of that trip here.
We stayed with my cousins in Williamstown, WV. Williamstown is a small town on the Ohio River directly across from Marietta, Ohio. We went frequently between the two towns. The river was the backdrop to much of what we did in the area.
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| The bridge from Williamstown to Marietta. |
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| Williamstown side looking across to Marietta. If you squint, you can see a big boat on the Ohio bank. |
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| One day, we took a river cruise on the sternwheeler Valley Gem. |
While Williamstown and the land close to the river are flat, that is unusual for West Virginia. WV is a state made up of steep hills and hollers (narrow valleys), with the hills turning into mountain ranges in the east. Ward and I went to visit Spencer, my hometown, one day over the hills and down the curvy roads. BTW, it's not a fun thing to grow up on curvy roads when you were prone to car sickness. But this time I got to sit in the front seat and fared much better than in my earlier years.
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| Buffalo Church was built in 1878. |
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| We traveled along a ridge for several miles until we reached the main road, Rt. 14. |
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| One of the few signs of life we saw on our detour. The notice on the tree reads, "No trespassing. I have a gun and a backhoe." |
I think this is enough for today. Next time, I'll show you more of our visit to Spencer.
Until next time...
Sunday, August 9, 2026
Thankful Sunday
I am thankful to live in the US.

The scouts getting ready for the flag ceremony.
Yesterday, Ward, Wally, Theo, and I ran/walked in a charity race. The race is sponsored by the Rotary Club, and the proceeds go to families with unexpected medical expenses. It is a fun family event that has a real sense of community to it. Before the race started, the Boy Scouts did a flag ceremony during which we said the Pledge of Allegiance, and then we sang the National Anthem. I found them all quite moving, as they reminded me how lucky and thankful I am to live in America.
Of course, there are problems and disagreements here, but the passion that comes with those is because people care. So, for the privilege of being an American, I am thankful.





















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